The Golden Rule

16 06 2011

My next door neighbor in my dorm this past year had this Golden Rule poster on her door.

There are many different versions of the Golden Rule, but for me as a Christian this is “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”  Many people, myself included, heard this over and over growing up, at school, at home, in church, etc. But how closely do we follow this common saying?


Here’s the thing. We all have groups that we identify with proudly, but no one likes to be judged as a member of a group if it has a bad connotation and no one wants to hear their group disparaged. Also, no one wants to be judged by some members of the group with whom they disagree.


Personally, I think Christianity is a wonderful religion, and I am proud to follow Christian principles. However, I don’t want everyone who knows that I am a Christian to look at people like Scott Lively, Caleb Lee Brundidge and Don Schmierer, three men who spoke at a conference in Uganda about “curing” homosexuals and helped set in motion the Anti-Homosexuality Bill of 2009, which includes the death penalty for homosexuality, and think that all Christians are heterosexist and homophobic.


I don’t want anyone to look at Michelle Bachmann, a Christian who has said “not all cultures are equal, not all values are equal,” about Islam and think all Christians feel the same way. I don’t want anyone to see her support for the Center for Security Policy report, “Shariah: the Threat to America” which proposes that U.S. Muslims are waging a “stealth jihad” to impose sharia on the U.S. and think that all Christians are guilty of the same illogical thinking and constantly spouting the same kinds of ridiculous accusations and Islamophobia that politicians have used over and over to demonize those they disagree with.


I don’t want anyone to look at Glenn Beck and think that all Christians are racist, sexist, and against equal rights for everyone but themselves and those that believe the things they do.


And then, of course, there is Adolf Hitler. How often when we talk about the Holocaust do we mention that Hitler was a Christian? Do I even need to explain why I don’t want people to judge me by him?


Basically, I just want to be judged by me, Jewel Daniels, my behavior and only my behavior, and I believe most people, if not all, want the same.


And yet, many people do that very same, unjust thing to Muslims. A American value is individuality, yet we do not judge others as individuals when it suits us, when we are angry or afraid. Following that instinct is taking the easy way out, something we do much too often. Of course I have heard stories personally from friends and acquaintances about being called a terrorist and getting nasty looks from complete strangers, but this is happening all over the country. Currently, Muslims report rising discrimination at work. Muslims make up less than 2 percent of the United States population, but accounted for about one-quarter of the 3,386 religious discrimination claims filed with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission in 2009.


And then of course there was the Sikh taxi driver who in early June was beaten when one of his customers thought he was Muslim because he wore a turban.


It was philosopher George Santayana who said ‘Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it’. I find this to be extremely appropriate for the situation we find ourselves in today. This same thing has happened over and over again in America. So few people have taken it to heart and stood up for others after having been themselves the ones who were discriminated against. Luckily, there are people who have chosen to remember their past and have empathy for others. Japanese Americans such as Representative Mike Honda have been among the most vocal and passionate supporters of Muslim Americans, especially on the West Coast. Honda spoke at a convention of the American Muslim Alliance in October 2001 expressing empathy for what they were experiencing due to his own family’s experience with Internment at Camp Apache during WWII. He defended Representative-elect Keith Ellison’s decision to use the Quran in his swearing-in ceremony and chastised Representative Virgil Goode in a letter for judging Ellison and other Muslims by the actions of radical extremists and urged him to embrace diversity, not fear it. Now here is someone who really follows the Golden Rule, and not just for Muslims, but for other minority groups in America fighting for equality.


I know this is hard, but it is necessary.


Be honest with me. Do you follow the golden rule? Do you stand up for what you believe in, and defend those wrongfully discriminated against? And if you don’t, isn’t it worth it to start?

The Faith Club

1 06 2011

Over this past Winter break I read a book my friend Madelyn Hoffman gave me for Christmas. It was the Faith Club by Ranya Idliby, Suzanne Oliver and Priscilla Warner, three mothers, a Muslim a Christian and a Jew  who came together to write a children’s book in the wake of the craziness of post 9/11 Islamophobia and ended up doing so much more than they set out to do. To be completely honest, I read it in less than three days, I couldn’t put it down. These three women met frequently, talking about their differences and commonalities, became friends, and later advocates for each other against those who disagreed with what they were doing.


What these women were doing was so amazing for me to read about. Sure they had awkward moments, and argued about their personal as well as their religious beliefs, but they took that step on faith and challenged themselves to try to create a better world for their children. It sure didn’t sound easy, but it was a start and a whole lot more than most people were doing.


A few weeks ago on Facebook, Americans Against Islamophobia posted an article about a request by Interfaith Alliance and Human Rights First to Christian churches “to invite Jewish and Muslim clergy to their sanctuaries to read from sacred texts next month in an initiative designed to counter anti-Muslim bigotry.” Another great idea! I hope this is not the first time anyone has come up with this idea, all I know is this is the first time I have heard of it.


The only time I was asked to purposefully seek out and have a conversation with someone of different beliefs was this past semester in the Intercultural Communication class at Juniata College. I ended up spending a lot of time with an acquaintance in Juniata Hillel, my school’s Jewish club.


There are people out there advocating for people to step outside their comfort zone and challenge their assumptions about others. Unfortunately they are not the loudest voices. Grassroots organizations, my classmates in Intercultural Communication and individuals like Ranya, Suzanne and Priscilla have taken steps toward communicating with others, rather than running away. But so much more needs to be done, especially by religious institutions, schools and of course the government. When we are willing to do that constantly rather than once in a blue moon, it will be that much easier to maintain peace and justice for everyone.


What steps have you taken towards furthering thoughtful communication in your community, and as an individual? And what more needs to be done by the United States government and everyone in America?

Have We Learned Anything?

1 06 2011

They say every generation has its defining moment. But as a 9-year-old, it felt like any other day.


Ten years ago I was a chubby, bespectacled 5th grader, not a care in the world. My biggest worry was getting home in time for Pokemon. The words terrorist, Guantanamo Bay and al-Qaeda meant nothing to me.


Ten years ago, September 11 2001, every class in my elementary school was gathered in the gymnasium. None of us had any idea that today, like when JFK was assassinated or when Pearl Harbor was bombed, would be the day that defined the rest of our lives.


Ten years later, for another 9-year-old it was more special than just any other day; she was about to meet Representative Gabrielle Giffords at her first “Congress on Your Corner” gathering of the year in Casas Adobes, Tuscon Arizona. Christina-Taylor Green, was born 9/11/2001. Her mother says Christina’s birth “lent a grace note of hope to that terrible day.” She was an aspiring politician, a baseball player, and a caring daughter and sister. On January 8, 2011, Christina and 5 other people were murdered, and 14 others were wounded.


Christina’s murderer, Jared Loughner, is a man the media calls “mentally unstable”. His gender, religious background and race were not mentioned as possible influences on his violent actions. If Jared Loughner had been Muslim and had shot into a crowd of people, the media coverage, and the reactions to it would have been very different. Michael Moore seems to have had the same idea. He tweeted about Sarah Palin’s Facebook page, “If a Detroit Muslim put a map on the web w/crosshairs on 20 pols, then 1 of them got shot, where would he b sitting right now? Just asking.”


Many Americans who believe that it is wrong to discriminate against others because of race, religion, age, ability or sexual orientation seem to have a huge blind spot as far as Islam is concerned. People equate Islam and Muslims with everything they hate and fear. After years of news about the “War on Terror” and hearing political leaders refer to “the Evildoers”, is it any wonder that people living through economic difficulties who blame President Obama for their hardships believe that the President is Muslim?


This blind spot also extends to Latinos, but that was much more subtle until recently coming to the forefront of media attention in places such as Arizona. Now according to one of my professors, Latinos are now the people most often killed in movies and on tv. I have not seen any statistics, but it makes sense what with the growing anti-immigrant propaganda I have been hearing since middle school.


In my sophomore year I joined my high school chapter of Amnesty International, and so began my crash course in American politics. I wasn’t expecting much in the way of changing the world, I was just there to learn. I wrote an article about Guantanamo Bay prison for a small newsletter we were going to print. As I sat in front of my computer staring at the AI website reading accounts of the abuse the prisoners suffered, I felt overwhelmed. What could one teenager do to change so much misery and hatred?


That March our advisor brought us to the office of New Jersey Peace Action just two blocks away. The Executive Director Madelyn Hoffman gave us a tour of the office and explained to us what NJPA was. I still felt like I knew next to nothing about any of these new issues that were popping up, but here was an office full of people who devoted their lives to peace, and if I was going to find answers, this was a good place to start. I started volunteering the next day, and at least once a week for the next few months I came and organized the dozens of books in their boutique. There was everything, not only the history of Peace Action but books about the Vietnam War, Hiroshima and Nagasaki, Star Wars and Nuclear Weapons in the United States. I had the information at my fingertips, but it was still going over my head.


I continue to volunteer at New Jersey Peace Action to this day. Maybe someday this will all make sense, or maybe war, discrimination and hatred will always be a mystery to me. Regardless of the reasons politicians give, and the real reasons such as greed for money, oil or trade, I will never accept that people should die before we try every other option to maintain peace first.


My senior year of high school I took AP government. I will never forget the day my teacher brought in that morning’s newspaper, in which was printed 4000 individual photos of Americans who had died in Iraq. All these young smiling faces, all these lives cut short. I do not understand the motivation to sign up for any branch of the armed forces, but the bravery of those who choose to do so deserves respect, respect that the United States government did not give them. Most Americans want this war to be over, yet more and more money is spent and more and more soldiers are sent overseas to die.


Members of the government of the state of Arizona obviously do not respect the rights of people to live free of discrimination either. The Arizona Immigration Law SB1070 has become infamous. Representative Giffords like many others opposed this bill. She issued a statement saying “This law stands in direct contradiction to our past and, as a result, threatens our future.” The President of the University of Arizona contacted her when the families of several students who had planned on attending the University decided to attend out-of-state schools instead because they disagreed with this law.


Another outcome is a loss of revenue for many businesses in Arizona near the US – Mexico border. Many Mexicans who frequently go to Arizona to shop have “trusted traveler” cards which enables them to save time crossing the border. the Mexican government issued a travel alert, warning of “a negative political environment for all Mexican visitors” in Arizona. After SB1070 was passed Mexican newspapers and radio stations labeled Arizona as xenophobic and Mexican-hating. Clearly people heeded the warning. In Nogales Arizona, business owners like Bruce Bracker suffered. He says that 80% of his business is from Mexican customers who cross legally and that “The day they signed the bill sales were down 50 percent, and since then I’ve been getting killed,”. You would think it’s obvious that writing a law that alienates people who spent nearly 4 billion dollars in your state every year is a bad idea. Clearly Arizona State Senator Russell Pearce, the author of SB1070, hasn’t gotten the memo.


There is nothing wrong with having practical objections to this law, but for most people, their objections come from having a visceral reaction due to moral objections to the discrimination this bill legalizes. America has a very vivid history of discrimination, and of people who choose to fight it, yet it continues to this day.


All across the country the responses have been intense. There was outrage and daily rants on facebook, people at my college decided to boycott Arizona and there are over two dozen Boycott Arizona facebook groups started by various individuals and organizations. I can only imagine how much more angry people directly affected in Arizona have been. Arizona is one of only three states, along with Alaska and Vermont where, as of April 2010, it is legal to carry concealed weapons without a permit. How could that possibly be a good idea in the middle of all this hatred boiling up to the surface? Angry people plus easy access to guns never equals anything good as Christina Green and Gabrielle Giffords can attest to.


So where are we now? The wars in Iraq and Afghanistan and against people of color continue and more people die every day. Guantanamo Bay has not been closed, people in Arizona can be pulled over for having too much melanin in their skin, and a little girl, who brought her family hope in the middle of a national crisis, will never grow up to make her own mark on the world.


I have learned a lot in the past ten years. I know how to form my own opinions on war, discrimination, guns and what it means to treat people like equals. I have come a long way from the confused 9-year-old. But let me ask you, what have you learned, and has America as a country learned anything?